Back a Bro

When he puts his hand up, help us say yes.

For more than 38 years, men across Te Tauihu have come to RISE because they know they need to change for their partners and their kids. More of them are reaching out than ever, and many come early, before things get worse at home. That is when we can do the most for them and their whānau.

There is no longer any funding for this work, so for now RISE is paying for these men's places from its own resources, but this is not sustainable. Back a Bro helps make sure we never have to turn anyone away.

Back a Bro today

You can give weekly or once through Givealittle. A gift of $40 a week pays for one man's whole journey with us, and gifts of $5 or more get a 33% tax credit.

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If you would prefer to make a donation directly, please contact us: manager@rise.net.nz or 03 548 3850.

For most men reaching out is the hardest thing to do, and when you get told no we can't help, it really has a big impact on them.
Logan, Back a Bro campaign champion

Why Back a Bro

The man who asks for help early is the one we can do the most for

Many men come to RISE on their own because they know something needs to change at home. The earlier we work with a man, the more we can do with him and his whānau.

Helping early is where the gains are greatest, before the police callout or a protection order, and most importantly before tamariki grow up thinking this is how men behave.

“I just wish I had known there was this sort of support available a long time ago, because perhaps I wouldn't be where I am now.” Paul*, RISE Non-Violence Programme
A man sitting with his hands in his lap, photographed from the waist down.

What your backing pays for

  • Weekly group sessions with skilled facilitators
  • One-on-one support where he needs it
  • Wraparound support for him and his whānau
  • Kai and practical resources

What changes

When men do the work, whānau are safer

Everyone who finishes working with RISE is asked what changed.

97%say they now use less violence
96%say their family is safer
98%have new skills for their relationships
99%felt safe and supported at RISE

Percentage who agreed or strongly agreed, out of Non-Violence Programme participants who answered each question. RISE client evaluations, August 2024 – September 2026.

“Interactions with the boys/kids is more positive. Time spent together as a family has increased. Communication between my partner and I is healthier.”

“Thank you RISE for all you have done for me & my children and our future.”

“I have changed so much others have noticed it in me.”

“Attend RISE willingly, it really helps whānau.”

In their words

Men who have done the work

These men chose to share what changed for them. Names are changed to protect them and their whānau.

Pete*: “It's life changing”

“My physical health is in a better place; our relationships are in a better place. I could not recommend RISE enough to anyone.”

Facing the end of his marriage, Pete contacted RISE himself. His change journey gave him tools to manage his anger, and his relationships with his wife and kids turned around.

Read Pete's story

“One of the best things I've ever done”

“Attending RISE was one of the best things I've ever done. It's made me a much better person.”

His wife asked him to deal with his anger. He started one-on-one, moved into the group, and now parents his two children and leads a team at work with a different set of tools.

Read his story

Paul*: “I can't thank RISE enough”

“Now I'm better at stopping and actually listening to what they're saying.”

Paul learned to pause, listen and rebuild trust with his partner and child.

Read Paul's story

Our champion

One bro backs another, and another

Logan came to RISE at one of the lowest points of his life. Today he is the champion of Back a Bro. Read Logan's story

Backing a bro is not just backing one bro, because you back one bro and eventually they back another and another and another, which will continue to happen, causing that small ripple effect that supports so many others than just one bro.

I couldn't be more excited to support such a kaupapa.

Logan
Why I Back a Bro Jo
Why I Back a Bro Victor
Why I Back a Bro Aaron

For employers

Back a Bro at work

Employers can back a group of men, match staff giving, or bring Be There training to their team.

Find out how

Bequests

Leave a gift in your will

A bequest to RISE helps the next generation of men break the cycle long after today. We are happy to talk it through in confidence.

Ask about bequests

Protecting the men we work with

Every story here is shared with consent, and names are changed. You back the programme, not an individual, so no one's progress is ever reported to donors.

Accountable

RISE has worked with whānau in Te Tauihu for over 38 years and is approved by the Ministry of Social Development, Oranga Tamariki, the Ministry of Justice and Ara Poutama Aotearoa. Registered charity CC24151.